Get Rid Of A Loser Mindset
If you’re having trouble achieving the goals you set out for yourself then it may be because of the mindset that you have. Your reality, your level of income, your net worth, your happiness, how other people perceive you, are all reflections of how you think. By changing your mindset, you’ll change your reality.
Most people who are unsuccessful possess a mindset that is harmful to them i.e. a Scarcity Mindset or Loser Mindset. So it’s no surprise that they live desperate and mediocre lives. Those people are not able to get rid of a loser mindset that’s making them poor, unhappy, frustrated, and unable to live up to their fullest potential.
Winners on the other hand operate on a totally different frame of mind compared to those sad losers and that is why they always get the results that the losers dream of.
I can’t do this it’s Impossible
Keep in mind that if you hear yourself saying this that it doesn’t come from nowhere. It’s part of your current mindset. This belief limits and prevents you from thinking big, from taking risks, and from pursuing your purpose. The moment you think “I can’t do this” or “this is impossible”, you immediately cut off the possibility of whatever you wanted for from happening. Winners and Successful people don’t waste time thinking about things that appear to be impossible. They focus on getting the job done and taking action towards their goals.
It’s all dependent on luck
This right here is probably the most common excuses losers use, because it takes the blame from them. Instead of owning their mistakes and failures and confronting the reasons why they failed, they just blame it on luck. Because luck is random therefore there is no need for you to change or feel bad that you keep doing the same mistakes that lead to shit results.
Instead of owning their fuck ups and taking responsibility for making bad decisions, luck makes their shitty results a product of random draw. And since there is no moral blame, they believe that there is no need for them to change.
While luck can sometimes play a huge part in success, it does NOT determine nor guarantee success. Your own effort and skills have way more impact on a great outcome than any version of luck will ever have.
I don’t have the money/resources
Another common loser mindset. By saying “I can’t afford it,” you destroy any chance of coming up with a solution in order to buy something or make an investment. Saying the phrase “I can’t afford it” is absolute. It doesn’t leave any room to come up with creative solutions.
This is not the mindset of a winner because you’re focusing on the impossible again, instead of focusing to solve the problem and gain some reward. Change your mindset and reframe the phrase “I can’t afford it” to “How can I afford it. What do I have to do in order to get X.”
As soon as you do this you’ll see opportunities and solutions coming your way. For example, if you don’t have money you can take on an extra job, sell some stuff that you no longer need on Ebay, become a freelancer and offer your service the options are endless but you’ll only see and pursue them when you change your mindset.
It’s too late/I don’t have time
Similar to “I can’t afford it,” “I don’t have time.” You are burning every bridge by telling your mind that you don’t have the time. It’s a miserable excuse, not having time doesn’t exist you will always make the time for the things that are most important to you and if that’s watching TV and jerking off to porn 5 times a day then you will make the time for that.
By saying “I don’t have time” or “It’s already too late” you are saying that the opportunity has passed. You condition yourself to think this way by constantly repeating those false beliefs and because of that you will always miss the opportunities when they show up.
Establish your Winner mindset by saying and believing that it’s never too late to begin something new.
The System is rigged against me and you have to know the “Right People”
Losers who are stuck at the bottom keep saying that the whole system is rigged against them. Far from it Successful people write books for you to read, they explain how they got rich, what they did in order to become successful, the information is out there and nothing is rigged against you, we have more options now than ever before so cut the crap and read books.
What do you mean by saying you have to know the right people? Of course if you are born in a wealthy family and you have good connections to successful people it will be easier for you to become successful as well. But if you start out with nothing how can you expect to get to know the right people right away? How entitled are you to expect that?
Work your ass of, hustle, build your business and get your name out there and soon enough you will get in contact with the right people and you can build upon that connection.
Having the mindset that the only way to get ahead in life is through connections shuts you off from starting at the ground floor. Just do a quick google search and you’ll see how many multi-billionaires started from the bottom. They didn’t know the right people right of the bat and they managed to pull it off.
I’ll do it later
If you want to be a winner then you have to start now, not later, not tomorrow. Success doesn’t wait until you’re ready. You have to plan now and take action. If you keep saying “I’ll do it later,” then you’ll continue to reap the same piss-poor results.
If you are working towards your mission then you must get rid of your loser mindset. It’s not hard to get rid of, you just have to take disciplined action. Change your Mindset to think like a winner and face all the challenges that come with it.
As always thanks for reading and until next time.
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