Dissatisfaction in the relationship
There are very few relationships in which both partners are completely satisfied. Take a look around you and get an overview. The knowledge may be shocking, but it is real. Dissatisfaction in the relationship is common. Everyone has one or the other to criticize in their relationship.
Dissatisfaction in the relationship can appear in different areas of life
The discontent can arise about living together in the same household. For example, the partner could be frustrated because her darling is not helping or doing too little household chores. He, on the other hand, may complain because she doesn’t support him in building his career. There may be financial reasons, such as B. Different views on spending and income etc. You hear complaints about complaints and you may ask, why do people stay together with so much whining and suffering?
The causes of dissatisfaction in the relationship can also be emotional. “She doesn’t care if I’m unhappy,” he complains, and she will reply that he doesn’t care how she feels either. Achieving physical satisfaction is now also a long way off.
Going out together to have fun together has long been a thing of the past. Instead, you sit at home in front of the telly and somehow kill time. Some even fear the holidays, on which they have to spend the whole day with the partner. There are doubts about mutual friendship and countless complaints about suffering have piled up, but nobody feels responsible.
But why doesn’t communication with each other work anymore? Why are couples not happy with each other? Why did the relationship dissatisfaction arise at all? It is not always easy to answer these questions. However, this problem can be solved with little effort.
Both should sit down together and put everything that they feel depressed on paper. Then they should exchange their notes and talk to each other about any problems. Now they should decide to do everything possible to please the others. Both should take a month to do this and, if there is still a problem, talk about it again after a month. They should keep talking this month and make a firm decision to bring their relationship back to life in order to become a happy, exemplary couple again. This decision alone will change a lot.
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