Find the right life partner
Unsure of what the future will bring us, young, full of dreams and hopes but without any experience, we enter the complicated world of dating and relationships. And then, based on our feelings alone, we think that the right life partner is the person who causes the greatest tingling in our stomach, the one who is the first to spark the attraction in us that we can hardly escape.
So our first love experiences are more physical in nature, and we don’t always meet the right life partner for us. But even after numerous sad love stories and many other disappointments, we can find the right life partner, with whom we finally experience feelings of security and perfection.
Even if it doesn’t sound romantic, but if we fall in love, it doesn’t automatically mean that the fit between two people is right. Feelings are one side, and whether two people really harmonize with each other is another story. The key to the right life partner and a harmonious, happy relationship is somewhere else.
How we can find the right life partner
So in order to find the right life partner, we have to listen deeply and know our most intimate desires. We need to get to know ourselves at the highest level and find out exactly what we expect from others. Only after we have done this are we ready to go through the world, to go on a journey of discovery to find the right partner for us and with a little luck we will find our fulfillment.
The most important thing, which should come first, is of course our feeling, because if everything is perfect, but love is missing, you can not speak of a fulfilling relationship, but rather of friendship.
So we find someone we love and start a relationship. Then, after the first few weeks, months, or even years when everything is perfect, regardless of not seeing the other person through the pink glasses of falling in love, we begin to see what he really is: all of his qualities, too his mistakes.
It is now important to weigh up. This is where the second criterion comes into play, a criterion that should be based on logical thinking: namely, to think carefully about whether you might and want to be able to live with the person you are in love with in the long term.
In many cases, people hold onto meaningless relationships out of habit rather than love, as long as everything else seems to be in order. However, this is a tragic mistake, because if you do this, you will recognize the truth too late when many disappointments have left their mark and love has become bitter.
If we use heart and mind, we can find the right life partner
After all, it is not so difficult for all those who have the ability to use heart and mind correctly to find the right life partner. If we suffer a little while not having a love that makes us sad and unhappy, we will be richly rewarded if we find that we have made the right decision, and that decision was the one that made it possible for us to make the right one to meet close partners with whom we can stay together.
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