How men can overcome shyness towards women
Shyness of the opposite sex is common and there are many men who are insecure and shy about women . In fact, some of them fail to overcome their shyness . But the good news is that most men can do it if they really want to and work on it. The linchpin is simply self-confidence.
The fear of rejection
Most men are shy and inhibited because they are afraid of being rejected. Rejection or rejection can be uncomfortable, embarrassing and hurtful – but it doesn’t have to be if you handle it properly. This is basically a normal reaction, but if you never take the risk, you risk missing out on the chance to meet the woman who might be the perfect fit for you. You shouldn’t let shyness stop you.
Those who are constantly dominated by their shyness will often feel lonely and depressed in life. Shyness makes it difficult or impossible to relate to the opposite sex in a casual, natural way. The shy person is constantly worried about the possible reactions of women and about his own behavior, in other words, he is tense and inhibited. Shyness is easy to spot. Women often perceive this as a sign of weakness, which diminishes the chance of really getting to know a woman better.
For those men who want to overcome their shyness towards women , here are some tips and suggestions.
Strengthen your self-confidence! Don’t be afraid of rejection. A great way to build your confidence and overcome your shyness is for others, such as B. a friend to get in touch with women. This eliminates the fear of being rejected in advance. Because if you don’t meet them because of you, but because of your friend, then a possible rejection is not for you, but for your friend. If you have successfully mastered this, the next step can be to take the next opportunity to really meet a girl or a woman in your own interest.
Always stay authentic
Try to be open, relaxed, and easy with everyone, not just women. Learn to smile a lot more, because smiling is even more contagious than the flu. But don’t overdo it right away so that it doesn’t look fake, but always remain authentic. If you put this into practice consistently, you will notice that over time you will become more open and open to others, including women.
Don’t look at women like strange beings, but like friends. Don’t think of it as a sexual object beforehand. Just have a nice casual chat and everything else may develop all by itself later. If you’re a guy who’s only looking for sex, the women will see through you right away. Be kind to women but don’t worship them like a goddess. If you act as if the woman is too beautiful for you, it won’t help you. She will feel it and ultimately draw her conclusions from it.
Just let everything come to you
Do not expect anything. If you have expectations that are too high for a woman at first, it can quickly lead to a feeling of disillusionment and frustration if your expectations are not met. An overconfident appearance during dating is also not particularly advantageous. Just let everything come to you and enjoy it.
Don’t be afraid to be rejected. If you don’t take the risk, you will never know if a great friendship could have arisen. The key is to stop taking things personally. Again and again there are people who don’t really mean what they say. You can’t get hurt if you don’t take it personally. Have the courage and gradually work on overcoming your fear of rejection, and soon your shyness towards women will subside.
Overcoming shyness towards women is not an easy task, but it is not impossible. You just have to learn to trust yourself, try to make more contacts. Go on a journey of discovery. Ultimately, it all depends on yourself.
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