Is it love or falling in love?
You are attracted to the other. You think of him / her. You want to be with your object of love. You show all the characteristics of being in love.
But is it love? Or is it falling in love that disappears after a while?
Let’s take a closer look at this.
What is the difference between love and falling in love? The primary difference is that falling in love is short-lived. It passes relatively quickly.
How can you tell?
Think of all the qualities of the person that are the trigger of your love.
Now think of another person. Imagine that the other person has the same qualities to an even greater extent. Think about it carefully and imagine it as much as possible. Are you still in love or is your interest and connection changing to the new contender?
Let’s take another scenario.
Imagine a serious argument with your loved one. Imagine he or she insults you, is angry with you and argues violently with you. Are you still in love Will you return to him / her the next day? Or are you starting to hate him or her already?
Take this test.
Over the years, your darling will lose physical attraction. Look at photos of movie stars when they were young and compare them to shots from today. Do the same with your lover. Are you still in love Will you love him or her when the physical appeal wears off after many years?
Love is a feeling that lasts for years.
Love can survive disputes and arguments. Love cannot simply be defined, but love means taking care of the other. If you love, you will be very selfless with your true treasure.
Do you have that feeling
If so, it’s love.
Otherwise, you should think about it a bit.
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