Lonely hearts in a loveless world
How is it that the suffering of loneliness in the hearts of men and women around the world seems to be spreading more and more?
Even superstars, who are revered as the icon of generations of millions around the world, feel unhappy, unfulfilled and lonely (tragic examples are Janis Joplin and Kurt Cobain).
The feeling of loneliness is a fundamental problem especially when it comes with the inability to love other people.
The symptoms of loneliness increase to the extent that they force those affected to focus attention on the pain. This creates a self-centeredness that prevents them from opening up to others.
There is generally less observable basic trust between people and less and less people are open to others.
But as long as you are not prepared to open yourself to others, other people will not be open-minded about you, so that closeness can not arise and you feel lonely again.
The energy has to flow, so that the cycle closes.
If you want to be surrounded by friends, you have to be a good friend for others first.
Love and loneliness
Love is quite an important factor in connection with the feeling of loneliness.
The fact is that we are shaped by other people in our living environment.
We are today a product of those who loved us or those who despised our love.
Love makes sense of our life!
The most important thing is to know, in order to actually love someone else we first have to love ourselves! Because you can not give anything that you do not have yourself!
If you do not have a self-love, you may feel that you “love” a beautiful woman or an attractive man, (as in a song that goes like this), “I was a nobody before I met you, my life was meaningless before you came into my life “). This is not love.
You may admire this person because she looks good, you worship that person because you think he is a better person, you can even sacrifice your life for him, or satisfy your own selfish ego with these people, but you do not love him.
Love is not a passive event, it is an active process. It is an act. The feeling of “love” is actually a product of an action.
When we become active and prepare the ground for the germ of love, if we nurture it well, it can unfold its powerful power and continue to expand. Then fear and loneliness no longer have a chance to settle into our lives.
Because in a loving environment there is no fear and no loneliness.
Self-love is the first foundation or foundation to love others, without which it is only a groundless act of self-delusion that pretends to love.
But how can we love ourselves if we were never loved?
In the next article we will discuss this topic in more detail.
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