The fear of allowing emotional closeness Emotional closeness is one of the most wonderful experiences that we can ever experience in our lives. We feel good when we can share our deepest thoughts and feelings with others, when we are deeply understood and perceived, and when we can exchange love, passion, laughter, joy and / or creativity. The experience of familiar … [Read more...] about The fear of allowing emotional closeness
I believe that emotions are holding us back, whether that is love, hate, anger you name it. Emotions cloud our judgement, decision-making, rational and logical thinking and if you are not in control of them they can leave you in a mess. However, we have the ability to master our emotions! Let's delve in a bit deeper. Our "two" brains When you follow the path of evolution, … [Read more...] about How To Master Your Emotions
Do we need emotions? Do they make us human? Are they holding us back? I put a lot of thought into this topic lately, and I came to the conclusion upon research that they are in fact holding us back and no they don't make us human. Animals also have emotions, and they aren't human either so the first myth is already busted. Why am I so concerned with emotions? On one hand … [Read more...] about Do we need emotions and are they making us human?
Emotions Are Part Of Being Human All of us live in a pool of subjective feelings that determine how we act. Not only do we let our emotions govern our actions, they also give us our motivation and understanding of our lives. Emotions control our lives, without an urge (emotion) to do something we wouldn't even get out of bed in the morning, but most of us never try to question … [Read more...] about Emotions Are Part Of Being Human
Emotional Intelligence Is Bullshit Anyone who has spent time working for a large organisation will have come across the management fad – the supposed panacea that will make everything better. From Myers-Briggs to Hartman’s Colour Codes management fads run the full gamut of pseudoscientific nonsense, wasting time and money by forcing people to go on pointless training programs … [Read more...] about Emotional Intelligence Is Bullshit