The perfect partner
The vision of how the perfect partner should be
Most lovers have an ideal picture of the partner in mind, a wishful idea of how the perfect partner should be. We also have some expectations, often there are a lot of expectations that we have of our partner.
A love partner can now easily tend to give his / her lover one or the other personal character trait, such as B. Prescribe behavior, care, clothing style, language style, hobbies, appearance, etc.
This watch doesn’t suit you! Why do you strut while walking? This does not look good! Why are you on the phone for so long? When are you going to put your household in order? Please change your clothing style! See how well the others are talking! Etc.
The perfect partner as a dream image – is that good for the relationship?
People have an ideal idea of the partner and are inclined to shape the other accordingly or want to bend them. This robs the other of freedom. Is that love? Does the partner like that and will it do him good? Doesn’t that affect the relationship?
Allow your partner to be the way he is
You fell in love with an individual with all its advantages and weaknesses. After that, you decided to start a relationship. Now you want to change the other in a variety of ways. This is not like breaking an unspoken promise. With this claim, we make others feel inferior. If we want to change the partner, we provoke him. With this we destroy love. How can you expect to be loved by someone who wants to change you all the time? But that’s exactly what happens all the time and many of us do it, whether consciously or subconsciously. This is how we kill the beauty of love.
We all have the freedom to be what we are and how we are. We should leave our partner as he is and focus exclusively on love and relationship. This will help us to live a full and pleasant life.
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