Values that are not lived can destroy a relationship
We are committed to some values and yet we do not follow them. Before we come back to this later, I would like to anticipate that our love can be very endangered if we do not live our values honestly. It can destroy our relationship. When looking for answers to our lost love, we need to find out if we have violated our values. I want to give a few examples here.
What are the values that are important to you? Honesty telling the truth, helping others, understanding others, caring for others, being compassionate. These and many other values can be found in most people’s list of values. But what about the life of these values?
How many of us are not lying? How many of us act carelessly towards others / how many of us cheat others for our own benefit? We are ready to sacrifice most of our values to achieve our material goals. We justify all our actions in this way, but deep inside we find no peace and contentment. We know that we have strayed from the original path.
Does the same thing happen to our love relationship? If we are in love, we say – I will always take care of you. In love we swear absolute loyalty. We promise to sacrifice our comfort in favor of the other so that he feels comfortable. When we are in love, we promise many things including never harming our darling.
When it comes to living by these values, it is very often the case that we disregard most of these values. We reduce our love to give and take and justify our wrong actions with all possible arguments. But the result is the death of love. After that, we blame our darling for the failure of love. That is our tragedy.
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